16歲，按照東方或西方的法律，已屬成年人的范疇，那意味者他或者她的生理和心理可能已經(jīng)達(dá)到比較成熟的階段，在這里我用“可能”這個(gè)詞，是因?yàn)樗蛩母改敢苍S會(huì)覺(jué)得這還是個(gè)太年輕的年紀(jì)，年青到還沒(méi)經(jīng)歷過(guò)花花世界的誘惑與挫折，而一個(gè)人的成熟往往是要付出代價(jià)的，這也是為什么父母?jìng)儾⒉皇挚隙ㄋ麄円呀?jīng)成熟。
《情系我心》講述的是一個(gè)16歲的女孩Jane的情感自我認(rèn)知過(guò)程，在學(xué)校她遇到了改變她一生的女孩Talyor。說(shuō)改變她一生，或許不太準(zhǔn)確，因?yàn)門(mén)alyor的出現(xiàn)只是讓她得以認(rèn)知自我的一個(gè)誘因而已，Jane愛(ài)上了Talyor，兩人親吻的一幕被處于青少年叛逆期的弟弟窺視到，并惡作劇般的宣揚(yáng)出去，于是，父母的疑問(wèn)接踵而來(lái)。正如其他父母一樣，他們把這一“荒唐”的行為歸結(jié)于孩子的好奇。在經(jīng)歷了迷惑、彷徨、恐懼、擔(dān)憂、自我否定等一系列心理過(guò)程后，她向父母出柜了，換來(lái)的是父母的憤怒和失望。出于母愛(ài)的天性，她的媽媽開(kāi)始“勸說(shuō)”Jane，希望以此來(lái)糾正她的“錯(cuò)誤行為”。當(dāng)然，最初的控制措施較為強(qiáng)烈，24小時(shí)的監(jiān)護(hù)，并且禁止Jane出門(mén)
well,I guess this is really hard for gay people to tell the truth to those they love the best.We just don't want to hurt them.When they seem to get hurt because of what we do or who we are,we escape,we run away from the truth and the feeling we keep so deeply in our heart.
Once I talked to my dad about gay issue and he thought that they do nothing but blowjob and anal sex.what could I say to him then?He understands nothing about being gay and this is probably the last thing in the whole world he wants to know of.
We just can't be understood.
It's the saddest thing in the world.
這個(gè)題材的電影，我可能看的并不多。我只是一個(gè)比大多數(shù)人愛(ài)看電影的人，沒(méi)有一定要看的情感需求?？催@部電影之前，也是當(dāng)做愛(ài)情電影下載來(lái)的，不曾想能夠讓我如此感動(dòng)。
在我看過(guò)的這類(lèi)題材電影中，這真是少見(jiàn)的溫馨。不是一味地滲析愛(ài)情，不是反復(fù)的宣泄歧視帶來(lái)的痛苦，而是在我面前呈現(xiàn)了一個(gè)普通的少女，和她普通的家庭。結(jié)局令人欣喜，愿天下相同處境的人都能得到理解，而非偏執(zhí)的愛(ài)。
我二十五年的人生，只接觸過(guò)兩次少數(shù)群體，都交往不深。所以實(shí)在不敢說(shuō)明白他們的處境，理解他們的心情
it's more a story about PFLAG than a lesbian puppy love story.
i really like Mrs. Wascott ,and Jane's mother is played by "Samatha" as in Sex and the City ?
BTW, Taylor is quite my type...
some fleeting pieces of my mind:
1)usually, u won't and can't die after ur bubbly first love has been dashed.but, u are changed, forever.
there is no way back.u r a different person ---which, is not necessarily a bad thing.
2)coming to terms with urself & what is true is the first step 4 everyone who loves differently.
it's damn hard , and yes, it takes time -- maybe a lot ,if u shall take one step forward then one back..
that's totally normal.still, u've got to do it.what matters is u must force ur true self into a corner,stare it down and really see ur own true color.then, no matter what ,try,try as if ur very life is hanging uopn it, to Accept ,instead of frantically painting it "normal".
Can't imagine what I would do and feel if I am lasbine. Or what if my child is. It's right, sometimes, it's not you don't love your lasbine daughter or gay son, it's just because you are concerning that your child would live a harder life than what you have to. For gay, this world is really not a nice place, if coming into, just trying to make his/her life easier. Love differently, they still are the same person.
【情系我心】God,I still got a long way to go
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