女人，我也是，剛剛在今年邁過了剩女的門檻，進(jìn)入這個(gè)大部隊(duì)，無(wú)論他歡迎還是不歡迎，我都來(lái)了。
《eat pray love》先看了書，流水賬一樣，翻譯的很翻譯，基本上就是一字一字對(duì)應(yīng)起來(lái)，看的索然無(wú)味，不過也看完大半本，并且打算繼續(xù)看下去。
電影經(jīng)歷了四個(gè)地方：紐約、意大利、印度、巴厘——liz在紐約的忙碌生活丟掉了心，生活不開心，甚至一度失去信心，在意大利尋找生活的快樂，在印度修行來(lái)尋找內(nèi)心的平衡，在巴厘島找回內(nèi)心的愛。
意大利--Eat--尋找"your word"
-“It start as 'daughter'.I was good at it. And then 'wife', not so good. 'Girlfriend',not so good.My word's 'writer'.”
-“No,that is what you do. That isn't who you are.”
我們每天忙碌著，獲得各種頭銜，leader，manager，VP，CEO。。。So what？摘掉這些頭銜甚至光環(huán)，你是不是還是知道你是誰(shuí)？是不是有三五好友能夠說(shuō)話無(wú)須顧慮？或者真的為你考慮？有誰(shuí)愛你是因?yàn)槟?，而不是因?yàn)槭鞘裁吹哪?？在這些人面前

+You have screwed up my life but what I wanna know is why couldn't you find yourself in our marriage? Why didn't yousay what you were thinking?
-I did. You never l stened to me.
+No,no no. You never said:"Hey, you know what? You suck. I'm deeply unhappy." You just took off. You never gave me a chance to address those problems. That's not fair. That's just quitting. I took vows. Till death. And take them seriously. I believe this is just a phase and I'm willing to wait it out.
-You are always waiting, Stephen. Waiting for me to come home, to wanna have kids, to make you dinner. I don't know why we can't accept we don't wanna live in unhappiness anymore.
+I accept the fact that I am occasionally unreliable and often get s detracked, but I thought you liked that about me. I thought it was okay that I had hopes and dreams.
-Have a dream. Stephen, great, fine. Do that. Just pick one.

這電影在國(guó)內(nèi)被高人翻譯成飯禱愛。呵呵，太妙了。
看完覺得這片子真爛，浪費(fèi)了那么好的pizza和pasta，可惜了。這電影實(shí)際上就是一碗心靈雞湯，沒放鹽，還挺膩。
　　
意大利的美食，居然就用幾道標(biāo)準(zhǔn)菜給搞定了，仿佛洋人進(jìn)了中餐館就點(diǎn)酸甜豬肉一樣。意大利的美景也是如此，都是最最著名的景點(diǎn)，看著如同導(dǎo)游手冊(cè)。
印度去了半天也是旅行手冊(cè)，連好吃的都沒有了，變得異乎尋常的虔誠(chéng)。女主人公所持有的宗教視野說(shuō)來(lái)說(shuō)去還是她自己的心靈折射。
這讓我想起來(lái)我們?cè)谟《嚷眯袝r(shí)碰上過一次，一群老外跑到印度旅游點(diǎn)看傳統(tǒng)舞蹈表演，還打扮成當(dāng)?shù)厝说臉?，人家給擺好了椅子他們不坐，一本正經(jīng)地貌似正宗地盤腿兒坐地上。結(jié)果演出時(shí)，我們后排有個(gè)老外在照相，相機(jī)快門聲音有點(diǎn)大。一本正經(jīng)先是大聲噓，然后就和那老外吵起來(lái)了，說(shuō)這么好的演出你照相對(duì)人家藝術(shù)家不尊重什么的。那個(gè)人也不客氣，倆人嗓門兒還越來(lái)越大。結(jié)果蓋生氣了，扭頭說(shuō)，滾！他們才算安靜下來(lái)。其實(shí)呢，這演出就是專門給游客看的，巴不得你照相給他們宣傳，票上就印著歡迎照相。實(shí)際上

僅僅是畫面都是值得一看的，拍得很漂亮；我很喜歡這類電影，有畫面，有哲理，有共鳴。當(dāng)你覺得遇到困惑的時(shí)候，不妨看看吧！

Please try to find your own balance before you get married. Once you get married, it's like a kind of commitment. You will spend the rest of your life with this person, no matter what. AND It's OK to lose this banlance because of LOVE. Also travel a lot people!! When you r young, maybe you'll find your soulmate on the road, at work, or on the way home!~
Try to value everyday as the most important day in your life. Do what you want, make food that makes life sparkles, and be a excellent employee at work.
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“美食、祈禱和戀愛”愛情中的悖論
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